Word of the Week: Hope

If everything else is equal, the one who is positive will win. When two people with the same skills face a challenge or conflict, it is generally true that the one who is positive will do better. “Positive” does not simply mean outwardly happy, cheerful, or upbeat. It means having a sense deep-down inside that you believe that you can succeed. We can call this sense hope.

With hope, you still have to train and work in order to ready yourself to succeed. An old military saying sums things up well: “Proper prior planning prevents poor performance.” Good hope isn’t simply outcome driven. Hope is a part of the process of your training and development as a martial artist.

It is essential in your training that you remain positive. Expect a good outcome and act accordingly! In the martial arts, this means that you have should have a positive confidence in your abilities and your training. You should hope for the best.

One of the most important things you hope for as a martial artist, though, is a little bit different. We should all hope that we never have to actually fight. This hope should be a positive part of how we live our lives as martial artist. It’s one thing to have a dreamy hope that something bad never happens. It’s something very different to act with the positivity that avoids that circumstance as much as possible. Be kind and generous. Whenever possible, avoid trouble (or troublemakers). Be humble and helpful toward others.

This kind of positive hope leads you to the success of never having to prove your skills in a fight. And that is the biggest win of all.

Published by Master Kelly

I've been teaching Martial Arts for nearly 20 years in Richmond, Virginia. I'm proud to use a traditional approach at Shield which combines the positive physical aspects of Tae Kwon Do & Hapkido training with positive personal values of character and integrity.

2 thoughts on “Word of the Week: Hope

  1. Master Kelly, Hope you and your family had a great Christmas! The Pruitts sure did. We had a great time last Saturday, i have some video and pictures if you want any for Facebook or the blog. We would like to take a 2-3 month break from Shield Martial Arts, take January and February off and come back in either March or April. Let me know what we need to do to make that happen. God Bless Gordon Pruitt

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